Thomas W. Serpico, lovingly known as Tom, passed away peacefully at his home in Manahawkin, New Jersey, on Wednesday, September 24, 2025, surrounded by his family.
Tom, a 71-year-old, was a beloved basketball coach, a dedicated family man, and a cherished member of the Southern New Jersey community.
His passing has created a deep pain, but his kindness, mentorship, and joy will always be remembered by those who knew him.
Tom was born and raised in Spray Beach, New Jersey, where he graduated from Southern Regional High School in 1972.
He went on to study Economics at Franklin & Marshall College, earning his degree in 1976, and later completed a Master’s degree in Financial Management at Monmouth University in 1993.
His career showed his sharp mind and strong work ethic.
Tom worked as a salesman at Travelers Insurance and Merrill Lynch before joining AT&T in 1990 as a Senior Software Delivery Project Manager, a role he held with dedication for over three decades.
Beyond his professional life, Tom was a devoted husband to Susan Batters and a proud father to his daughter Michelle and son Chris.
He lived in Manahawkin with his family, where his home was filled with love, laughter, and the warmth of shared moments.
Tom’s greatest joy came from his family, especially his grandson, Bennett, who brought light to his final days.
Tom’s Passion for Basketball Defined Much of His Life
As a coach, he inspired countless young athletes with his enthusiasm and guidance.
His longtime friend, Chris Taylor, who had known Tom since they were 12, shared fond memories of their bond.
Chris wrote-:
“Tom was my freshman basketball coach, my next-door neighbor, and my longtime basketball and drinking buddy. He was one of a kind, and he will be deeply missed. Rest in peace, my friend,”
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Tom’s friendships were built on shared adventures and a love for life.
Childhood friend Paul Tarditi recalled their youth together, playing basketball in their backyard and surfing at the 24th Street break in Spray Beach.
Paul shared-:
“Tom was a fearless shorebreak rider. We cooked together at Howard’s Seafood Restaurant, where the term ‘bombers’ was born,”
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He also remembered their playful days, from building Dynaco sound systems to founding the whimsical “Vegetable Martyr Painters.”
Paul sent his heartfelt condolences to Susan, Michelle, and Chris, wishing Tom eternal peace.
Others shared similar sentiments. Thomas Logue, a fellow basketball friend, wrote,
“I’ll miss Tommy. He was a great basketball buddy over the years.”
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Linsey Locke added,
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Tom’s daughter, Michelle, shared a heartfelt tribute that captured the depth of their bond.
She wrote-:
“A father-daughter bond is truly special, and I’m so lucky to have had the one we did. Dad, you were an incredible father, husband, sibling, and friend. Heaven gained a true angel, I’m so happy you met Bennett and made him laugh, just like you made me laugh every day. I’ll forever remind him of you. Watching the Eagles, Phillies, and Sixers won’t be the same without you. I miss you so much already and would choose you as my dad in every lifetime. Goodbye for now, Dad. I love you always.”
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Tom’s son-in-law, Jake Winston, also honored him, saying,
“Rest in peace to the greatest father-in-law and Grandpa to Bennett I could ever ask for. You’re a legend to all who knew you. Heaven gained a great man. We love you.”
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Tom’s Passing United the Manahawkin and Spray Beach Communities in Love
His enthusiasm for life, whether coaching on the court, surfing the waves, or cheering for his beloved Philadelphia Eagles, Phillies, and Sixers, left a lasting impact.
He was a friend who made every moment brighter, and his memory will continue to inspire those who knew him.
Tom is survived by his wife, Susan; his children, Michelle and Chris; his grandson, Bennett; and many other loved ones.
A memorial gathering to celebrate his life will be held on Wednesday, October 1, 2025, from 3:00 PM to 5:30 PM at Maxwell-Tobie Funeral Home, 573 Mill Creek Road, Manahawkin, NJ 08050.
A blessing service will follow at 5:30 p.m., offering an opportunity for family and friends to come together and honor a remarkable man.
Tom Serpico’s life was one of love, laughter, and connection.
As his family and community bid him farewell, they hold tightly to the memories of a man who lived fully and loved deeply.
Rest in peace, Tom. Your light will shine on forever
