University of Arkansas basketball head coach John Calipari has been married to Ellen for almost four decades, sharing a partnership both in life and in supporting his career.
John, who coached the Kentucky Wildcats from 2009 to early 2024, had the unwavering support of his wife, Ellen, who was affectionately known by the Wildcats as “Mama Cal.”
Ellen was by his side throughout his tenure at Kentucky, supporting him and the team through every game and challenge.
Overall, Ellen has been much more than just a wife to John; she is his pillar of support, helping him navigate life’s challenges.
Together, they have raised a family with three children—two daughters and a son and have remained strong as a couple throughout the years.
John Calipari Tied the Knot With His Wife, Ellen, Back in 1986, and Together Raised Three Children
John first met Ellen at the University of Kansas, where he worked as an assistant coach, and she served as a secretary in the Kansas athletics office.
At the time, Ellen had recently separated from her first husband, NFL player Nolan Cromwell.
Their shared passion for sports and an undeniable spark brought them together, and they began dating before tying the knot in 1986.
Now, 38 years later, their love remains as strong as ever, with their affection and humor keeping their relationship vibrant.
Ellen playfully refers to John as her “roommate,” highlighting their dynamic as best friends turned life partners.
Furthermore, the couple often share glimpses of their life together, posting photos with their children and capturing cherished moments on social media.
On their 37th wedding anniversary, John shared a heartfelt post on Instagram, celebrating their journey with a picture and a touching caption:
Today, Ellen and I celebrate our 37th anniversary. I have been blessed to have her beside me through our journey. As a wife, confidant and mother, she has worked overtime to keep us all moving forward.
Further, they have consistently supported each other every step of the way. The former Kentucky coach once shared online how Ellen treated all the players like her own sons, stating:
She has treated all of our players over the years as her sons and was protective of them EVEN TO ME!! “Quit yelling at Demarcus!” Lol
Additionally, on John’s birthday this year, Ellen shared pictures of him on Instagram, wishing him a happy birthday and affectionately referring to him as her “roommate.”
This is JOHN! Today is JOHN’S birthday! 🥳 He’s my Roommate!🥰 He’s a girl dad, he’s a boy dad, a dog dad & a cat dad! He’s a good human! Very Happy Birthday Roommate! I love you!
Furthermore, when John left Kentucky, Ellen even posted a goodbye video honoring her husband’s decision and reminiscing on the enjoyable memories of her time in Lexington.
John and Ellen Have Also Started a Foundation Together
John and his wife have shared an unmatched partnership built on mutual respect, support, and commitment to one another.
Together, they co-founded The Calipari Foundation, Inc., where Ellen served as the vice president, reflecting their shared dedication to giving back to the community.
The Arkansas head coach has also built a close-knit family with three children, who frequently share heartfelt tributes about their dad online.
They’ve even joked about their mom being the true “man of the house,” saying:
My mom can change a tire, change the oil— my dad doesn’t know how to do any of that stuff, Part of the reason he’s so successful [at coaching basketball] is because my mom is so good at doing everything else,
Calipari has always been open about his deep love for his wife and children, often expressing how much they mean to him.
Nonetheless, John has found success in his professional career and personal life, building a loving family while achieving remarkable milestones in basketball.
In Case You Don’t Know
- John Calipari has led the University of Kentucky to one NCAA National Championship in 2012.
- Calipari has earned the Naismith College Coach of the Year title three times and entered the Basketball Hall of Fame in 2015.
- The basketball coach has previously coached at the University of Massachusetts, NBA’s New Jersey Nets, University of Memphis, the Dominican Republic national team as well as the United States men’s national under-19 basketball team.
