The Depew community and beyond are mourning the loss of Paul Gagliardi, a beloved former guidance counselor, dedicated sports official, and cherished family man.
Paul passed away on August 25, 2025, at the age of 89, leaving behind a remarkable legacy of service, kindness, and influence that touched the lives of several people.
His contributions to education, sports, and his community will not be forgotten, and his induction into the Section VI Hall of Fame this December is evidence of his enduring impact.
A Life of Dedication
Born on November 25, 1940, to Ermanno and Flavia Gagliardi, Paul L. Gagliardi grew up in Depew, New York, alongside his brother Carl.
From an early age, Paul exhibited a passion for helping others, a trait that would define his career and personal life.
He served as a guidance counselor at Depew High School, where he became a trusted mentor and advocate for students.
His warm demeanor and genuine care made him a beloved figure in the school, guiding generations of young people toward their futures.
Beyond the classroom, Paul was deeply involved in the Teachers Union, advocating for educators and fostering a supportive environment for his colleagues.
His commitment to education was matched by his love for sports, particularly high school football and girls’ basketball.
For over 50 years, Paul served as a NYSPHSAA official, earning respect for his fairness, professionalism, and enthusiasm.
His dedication to sports officiating has earned him a posthumous induction into the Section VI Hall of Fame in December 2025, a fitting tribute to his decades of service.
A Respected Referee and Mentor
Paul’s work as a referee began in 1969, and his presence on the field was unforgettable.
David Ederer, in a Facebook post, shared a photo of Paul refereeing a game, noting that even early in his career, Paul had already been officiating for 14 years.
David recalled watching Paul’s final game a few years ago at the Depew-Lancaster matchup, highlighting his remarkable tenure. David wrote,
“I never had him as a counselor at Depew, but I knew him and knew he was respected and was known for his happy disposition,“
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Paul’s ability to bring positivity to every role he took on left a lasting impression on those who knew him.
Paul’s influence extended far beyond the field and the school. He was a mentor, friend, and role model to many.
Reggie Wojcik, a former student, wrote,
“Mr. G was definitely one of the good ones!!! Was a huge influence in my high school career!!! RIP Mr. G.”
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Similarly, Rosemary Waggoner shared, “Mr. Paul Gagliardi, our Guidance Counselor, has passed away at the age of 84. He was a great influence on me, may he rest in peace.”
“Mr. Paul Gagliardi, our Guidance Counselor, has passed away at the age of 84. He was a great influence on me, may he rest in peace.”
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These tributes show the huge impact Paul had on his students, many of whom credit him with shaping their lives.
Paul’s devotion to his family was at the core of his life.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Cynthia; his children, Karen and Paul; and his six grandchildren, who brought him immense joy.
His final months were spent at his cherished cabin, where he enjoyed quality time with his loved ones, creating precious memories.
Paul was preceded in death by his daughter Lisa Gagliardi and his parents, Ermanno and Flavia.
His family expressed gratitude for the care provided by Hospice Buffalo, Inc., and Roswell Park, acknowledging the support that allowed Paul to spend his final days in comfort.
Paul’s Death Brought Sadness and Appreciation From Those He Influenced
Don Lucarelli, a colleague and friend, remembered Paul as “a very special person devoted as a counselor and sports official.”
He fondly recalled their morning coffee chats, a testament to Paul’s ability to connect with others.
Carole Orlowski wrote,
“Always in our hearts. A very special person touching so many and cherished by so many.”
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Jack Kreuzer, in a tweet, expressed his sadness, noting Paul’s upcoming Hall of Fame induction and his remarkable career as a NYSPHSAA official.
Saddened to hear of the passing of Paul Gagliardi.
— Jack Kreuzer 🎙️ (@JackKreuzer) August 31, 2025
A retired Guidance Counselor at Depew HS, Paul is being inducted in December to the @SectionVI Hall of Fame for serving over 50 years as a @NYSPHSAA Official, primarily football and girls hoops.
🕊️🙏https://t.co/xMCElnTU2u
Paul’s legacy is one of selflessness and service. His work as a guidance counselor helped shape the futures of countless students, while his dedication to sports officiating brought fairness and passion to high school athletics.
His influence will continue to be felt in the Depew community and beyond.
In place of flowers, Paul’s family has requested that contributions be made to any Section VI Sports program, a fitting way to honor his lifelong commitment to high school athletics.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, September 4, 2025, at 11:00 AM at Fourteen Holy Helpers Church, located at 1345 Indian Church Road, West Seneca.
The service will provide an opportunity for the community to come together and celebrate Paul’s life and legacy. Urban-AMIGONE FUNERAL HOME is handling arrangements.
Paul Gagliardi’s legacy of kindness and dedication will be honored by the Section VI Hall of Fame this December. He will be remembered and inspire all who knew him.
