The Tuscaloosa community mourns Rafael Pinedo, a beloved coach and Army veteran, who died at 51 on October 16, 2025, after battling stage 4 cancer.
Born on March 27, 1974, in San Diego, California, Rafael grew up with a passion for sports that shaped his life.
In his youth, he played football, baseball, and wrestled for Hilltop High School. That love for athletics never faded.
After moving to Tuscaloosa in 2020, he became an assistant coach for football and baseball at Holy Spirit Catholic High School.
He poured his heart into mentoring young athletes, treating them like his own children. His motto, “On the Line Gentleman,” became a rallying cry for the team, and it lives on in the hearts of those he coached.
Rafael served his country with honor as an infantryman in the United States Army. He was honorably discharged as a Specialist, last serving in the 1st Combined Arms Battalion.
He carried the name of a fallen Marine on his wrist as a symbol of his pride and dedication.
His military service reflected the same courage he showed in every part of his life. “This We’ll Defend” was more than a motto for him—it was a way of living.
At the age of 12, Rafael met his future wife, Duschka Castorena Pinedo. What started as a childhood friendship blossomed into a deep, lifelong love. They shared 16 years of marriage, built on faith and mutual support.
Together, they raised three children: Christian, Rafael Jr., and Duschka. Rafael was a devoted husband and father, always putting his family first. His home was a place of warmth, where friends became family, and everyone felt welcome.
Last year, Rafael began facing health challenges that led to a devastating diagnosis of terminal cancer.
True to his character, he fought with strength, determination, and deep faith. Even in his final days, while in hospice care at home, he found joy in visits from family, friends, and the players he mentored.
His wife Duschka showed incredible grace by keeping their home open to all who wanted to say goodbye.
As she put it, Rafael loved his family and “his boys,” and denying him that happiness was not an option.
Before his passing, a GoFundMe campaign was set up by Gabby Rubalcava to help cover funeral and related expenses.
The goal was $24,000, allowing the family to focus on honoring his legacy without financial worry.
Rafael, a proud veteran, had made deep connections in Tuscaloosa through his work at the VA, his church, and the school.
He embraced southern hospitality and became a true part of the community. Known for his big heart, friendly spirit, and love of life, he could light up any room with a joke or a word of encouragement.
A die-hard sports fan, he cheered for the LA Chargers, San Diego Padres, and his adopted Alabama Crimson Tide—Roll Tide!
Rafael’s Death was Quickly Known, Leading to Many Tributes.
Emily Plunkett Ewart shared a heartfelt post on Facebook, describing him as a devoted husband, father, veteran, and coach who made everyone feel like family.
She highlighted his battle with cancer and called for the community to surround his loved ones with prayers and support.
Holy Spirit Catholic School, where Rafael coached the Saints athletic teams, posted a condolence message:
“It is with a heavy heart that we share the news of the death of Coach Rafael Pinedo. He was a beloved member of our community, and we will miss him deeply. Please join us in praying for the repose of his soul and the consolation of his family, especially his children Rafael and Duschka. Our counselor and other faculty will be available tomorrow to talk and pray with students.”
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Friends and community members echoed these sentiments. Beth Thompson wrote,
“Rafa will be missed by so many. I will never forget the kindness he and his family poured into our lives. He loved Luke like he was his own son. The influence he had on the boys he coached/mentored will live on. My heartfelt prayers for his wonderful wife Duschka Castorena Pinedo and his children for comfort during this difficult time. We love you!”
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Fran Hinton added,
“Take your rest my neighbor, my friend and my family. You embraced me as a part of your family and I will always treasure the memories and conversations that we had sitting around the fire pit in the garage/driveway. May your legacy of kindness, helpfulness and showing love to others be remembered. Gone But Will Never Be Forgotten.”
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Rafael was a man of duality, fierce yet gentle, strong yet compassionate. He opened his heart and home to all, turning friends into family. His presence touched everyone he met, and his legacy of love, faith, and community will endure.
A funeral service will be held on Monday, October 20, 2025, at 11:00 AM at Holy Spirit Catholic Church, located at 733 James I Harrison Jr Parkway, Tuscaloosa, AL 35405.
Family and friends are invited to attend and celebrate his life. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the GoFundMe are appreciated to support his family during this time.
Rafael Pinedo’s death leaves a void in Tuscaloosa, but his spirit lives on in the lives he inspired.
Remember him fondly, dearly, and with love. Forever a Charger, forever a Padre, forever our Coach Rafael. Roll Tide!
