Lauren Sain posted her adopted son, Thomas’s, painful story on Facebook, where he had witnessed his biological mother being stabbed 32 times with a machete by her boyfriend.
After the death of his biological mother, Thomas lived with his abusive mother’s boyfriend and his abusive wife.
Lauren Sain’s path to motherhood began with a heartbreaking diagnosis of infertility. The news was devastating, affecting her mental health profoundly, and she would cry for days.
A pivotal moment came when a Child Advocacy worker (CASA) visited her workplace.
The worker shared a staggering statistic: 90% of babies in the foster care system never return to their biological homes, finding permanent families through adoption instead.
Lauren honestly admits she decided to pursue foster care for selfish reasons, and that conversation was a lifeline, redirecting her grief toward a new purpose.
She embarked on a demanding process of classes, home studies, safety checks, and countless preparations to welcome a child. She transformed her life and her home, all while praying for what was to come.
From Unimaginable Trauma to a Forever Home: The Story of Thomas
Lauren Sain has shared a powerful story of resilience, revealing the painful past of her adopted son, Thomas, and his remarkable journey to healing.
Her Facebook post detailed how Thomas came to her as a frail, silent foster child.
Initially, Lauren saw only a deeply traumatized boy who was severely underweight, covered in sores, and terrified of basic care like taking a bath.
I’ll never forget the first night that he slept in my home. He held my arm, and every time I’d go to take his hand loose, he’d wake up and get it again. And then, the vomiting began. And again and again.
Lauren Sain
Medical exams confirmed he was a victim of starvation and abuse.
It was only months later that the whole, horrifying truth emerged. Thomas had witnessed the murder of his biological mother in Florida, who was stabbed 32 times with a machete by her boyfriend.
He referred to his biological mother as “his first mom” and her boyfriend as “his first dad.” He was found 24 hours later, wrapped in a blood-soaked blanket.
After the death of his mother, he lived with his abusive dad and stepmom in Alabama, where he was tasered, forced to sleep outside, and denied food.
Thomas was empty, sad, and afraid. However, he loves his dad, even to this day.
The path to recovery was long, requiring years of trauma-focused therapy.
Slowly, Thomas began to emerge from his shell, learning to experience and express emotions again. He discovered the simple joys of being a child. His story is one of devastating loss but also of incredible hope.
Today, he is a healthy, adopted son who loves video games, fishing, and football.
Lauren shared his story not for sympathy, but to encourage others.
She urges everyone to be kind, as you never know what struggle someone is facing, and to consider fostering, calling Thomas “the most precious gift.”
I hope that you find yourself in a place of desiring to help others. There are so many struggling – financially, physically, mentally, and spiritually. We all have gifts, and gifts should be GIVEN. Remember that throughout the upcoming season and beyond.
Lauren Sain
In Case You Didn’t Know
- Lauren Sain has been married to Eric Davis, who works at Alabama Central Credit Union.
- She works as an HR manager at GRT Rubber-Falkville.
