Parents are speaking out after a CMPD pre-game talk delivered to middle school basketball players sparked concern and backlash.
The incident occurred before a youth basketball game involving players aged 12 to 14, where a CMPD officer addressed the teams following reports of an unrelated issue.
According to accounts shared by parents, the officer’s message included a stern warning about fighting on the court, even going as far as threatening to use mace if any altercation occurred.
While the officer emphasized the importance of playing competitively, having fun, and leaving personal issues off the court, several parents felt the tone and language crossed a line.
Many parents stressed that the players involved had nothing to do with the reported issue, noting that the child responsible for the alleged threat was not even a basketball player.
Some families said they only learned about the situation upon arriving at the game, leaving them shocked by the intensity of the address.
“This was excessive,” one parent wrote, adding that the children had no history of fights and did not deserve to be spoken to in that manner.
Others echoed similar sentiments, saying authority figures should know how to communicate with children without using fear or intimidation.
Several parents expressed concern about the long-term impact such interactions could have on young athletes, particularly regarding their trust in law enforcement.
Comments on social media described the talk as unnecessary, inappropriate, and emotionally upsetting, with some parents stating they would have filed formal complaints had their own children been present.
While a few individuals defended the officer, saying he set clear expectations for behavior, the overwhelming response from parents centered on accountability, communication, and the need for a more age-appropriate approach.
Parents are now calling for better coordination, clearer communication with families, and a more thoughtful handling of situations involving youth sports.
As one parent summed it up, the focus should remain on the game, the kids, and creating a safe, positive environment for young players to grow and compete.
