Pettis Norman, a former NFL tight end known for his time with the Dallas Cowboys and San Diego Chargers, made a lasting impact in football history through his triumphs, challenges, and deep love for his family.
At the heart of his personal story are the two remarkable women he married: his junior high sweetheart, Margaret Ann Clinkscales, and later, Ivette Hightower, daughter of a naval legend.
Norman passed away on July 7, 2025, leaving behind a legacy of strength and devotion.
Pettis Norman was born on January 4, 1939, in Lincolnton, Georgia, to Fessor and Elease “Eloise” Norman (née Booker).
As the youngest of ten children, he grew up in a close-knit family. Life took a difficult turn when he lost his father at age ten.
Seeking better opportunities, his family relocated to Charlotte, North Carolina.
There, Norman attended Biddlesville Elementary School, Northwest Junior High, and West Charlotte High School.
It was at Northwest Junior High that he met his first love, Margaret Ann Clinkscales, a moment that would shape his future.
Norman’s passion for football blossomed in high school.
Though he didn’t make the team until his junior year, he quickly became a standout starter by his senior season.
His talent caught the eye of scouts, setting the stage for a remarkable career.
In The Halls Of Northwest Junior High, Young Pettis Fell For Margaret Ann Clinkscales
Their love story began as childhood sweethearts and grew stronger over the years.
On December 22, 1962, they tied the knot, ready to build a life together.
Their marriage was blessed with three children, who brought joy to their home.
While Norman pursued his football career, Margaret was his rock, supporting him through the highs and lows of professional sports.
Norman was drafted in the 16th round (123rd overall) of the 1962 AFL Draft by the Dallas Texans (later the Kansas City Chiefs) and also joined the Dallas Cowboys.
During this time, he balanced his NFL career with service in the Texas Army National Guard from 1962 to 1968, showcasing his dedication to both family and country.
Tragically, Margaret passed away in 1991, leaving Norman and their daughters heartbroken.
The loss was deep, and the Reverend Jesse Jackson delivered a moving eulogy at her funeral, honoring her as a devoted wife and mother.
Norman carried her memory with him, even as he faced life’s next chapter.
After Margaret’s passing, Norman found love again with Ivette Hightower, a woman with a remarkable background.
Ivette was the daughter of Master Chief Harry Hightower and Pilar Hightower.
Her father was a naval hero, so respected that Hightower Hall at Naval Station Norfolk was named in his honor in 1995.
Ivette grew up alongside her siblings—Janet P., Yogi Boothe, and Xiomara—in a family that valued service and strength.
Ivette’s sister, Yogi Boothe, was a standout athlete, selected as an alternate for the USA field hockey team in the 1984 Olympics and as a starter in the 1988 Games.
After dominating for @ODUFieldHockey, Yogi Hightower-Boothe was later selected as a @USAFieldHockey alternate in the 1984 Olympic Games and as a starter in the 1988 Games. #VirgniaOlympians pic.twitter.com/8AwSKxWX8X
— Virginia Sports HOF (@VaSportsHoF) July 10, 2021
While less is known about Ivette’s personal achievements, her connection to such an accomplished family suggests she carries the same spirit of determination.
Norman and Ivette’s marriage was a partnership built on mutual respect and shared values.
Though details of their life together are private, it’s clear Ivette brought warmth and companionship to Norman’s later years.
Together, they navigated life’s joys and challenges, with Norman’s football legacy continuing to shine.
Norman’s Professional Journey Was Nothing Short Of Inspiring
After being drafted by the Dallas Texans in 1962, he went on to play for the Dallas Cowboys and later the San Diego Chargers.
His versatility as a tight end made him a valuable asset on the field.
Off the field, his service in the Texas Army National Guard showed his commitment to his country.
His contributions to sports were widely recognized. In 1977, Norman was inducted into the Central Intercollegiate Athletic Association Hall of Fame.
In 2010, he received another honor when he was inducted into the Black Sports Hall of Fame, cementing his place as a trailblazer in athletics.
Beyond football, Norman was a man of deep faith and family values.
He faced life’s trials—losing his father young, the death of his first wife, and the demands of a professional career—with grace and resilience.
His love for his daughters from his first marriage and his bond with Ivette reflected his big heart.
Norman wasn’t just a football star; he was a son, a husband, a father, and a friend. His ability to find love again after loss speaks to his hope and strength.
Pettis Norman passed away on July 7, 2025, at the age of 86.
His death marked the end of an era, but his legacy lives on through his family, his contributions to the game of football, and the lives he touched.
Fans and loved ones remember him not only for his athletic prowess but for the way he lived—with courage, love, and humility.
For those who knew him, Norman’s story is inseparable from the women who stood by his side.
Margaret Ann Clinkscales, his first love, shared his early dreams and gave him three children.
Ivette Hightower, his second wife, brought a new light to his life and connected him to a family of service and honor.
Together, these women helped shape the man who became a legend.
