Keelin Godsey, a USTFCCCA Athlete Hall of Famer, has been married to his longtime girlfriend, Melanie Hebert, for 13 years. They celebrated their 13th anniversary on September 17, 2025.
The married couple met during their time in graduate school for physical therapy at Northeastern.
Godsey was the first openly transgender athlete to compete for a spot on the United States Olympic team. He competed in women’s hammer throw competitions.
He was assigned female at birth but openly identified as male since 2005.
During his collegiate competition, Godsey won two national championships in the women’s hammer throw and set the NCAA Division III record twice in 2005 and 2006.
He finished eighth place in the hammer throw during the 2008 U.S. Olympic trials for the 2008 Summer Olympics and fifth at the 2012 Summer Olympics.
Previously, he finished third at the USATF National Championships and earned a spot on the U.S. team for the 2011 Pan American Games.
I take a lot of pride in the fact that I have a good amount of muscle mass, and I’ve done it naturally. But in some ways, this is the last body I would ever want.
Keelin Godsey
Keelin Godsey and Melanie Hebert Celebrated 13 Years of Marriage
Keelin Godsey and Melanie Hebert’s love story is a powerful example of their genuine commitment, which has overcome several challenges in their relationship.
They first met in graduate school for physical therapy at Berkshire Medical, where they became friends. Later, their friendship grew into love.
Hebert understood and supported Godsey from the very start.
She had been in a relationship with a transgender man before meeting the athlete, which gave her a deep understanding of what it means to be transgender.
The married couple is still deeply in love today. They don’t have human children, but they are proud pet parents to their furry family.
Some people I’ve dated, I’ve had to talk them through it, and I’m fine with that. For us, it was never something that had to be addressed. I got very lucky.
Keelin Godsey
Furthermore, one of the biggest tests of their marriage is the distance between them. They live on opposite sides of the country because of their careers.
However, they make it work through dedication, constant communication, and unwavering support for each other. They prove that love isn’t about being close every day, but about being a team no matter what.
The married couple often shares glimpses of their personal life on social media.
13 years married, we live on 2 different sides of the country, and our fur family has changed over the years. But we still got it.
Keelin Godsey
Melanie Hebert has been a Supportive Pillar for Keelin
Keelin Godsey is a transgender hammer thrower who faces daily anxiety and public scrutiny.
He competes in the women’s division but lives as a man, which leads to stressful and sometimes dangerous situations. Simple acts, such as using a public restroom, can result in harassment or confrontation.
However, Godsey’s wife, Melanie Hebert, has been his constant source of support through these challenges.
She provides both emotional and practical help, shielding him from cruelty and offering a safe space where he can be himself.
I’m a female when I compete. Every day I have to sweat, stress, and freak out. How do I look? What is someone going to think of me? Is someone going to say something at a track meet?
Keelin Godsey
Moreover, Hebert witnessed the awkward interactions that define so much of their public life.
She has seen how a server’s polite “sir and ma’am” can quickly turn to flustered backtracking the moment Keelin speaks.
She understands the depth of the anxiety and the weight of the scrutiny. Her unwavering love and advocacy give Godsey the strength to compete and live authentically.
In Case You Didn’t Know
- Kelly Godsey, the daughter of Renee Godsey, was born on January 2, 1984, in Massachusetts, United States.
- He graduated with a bachelor’s degree in English from Bates College in 2006.
- He was named to the NCAA Silver Anniversary Division III track and field championship team and USTFCCCA New England Region track and field athlete of the year twice.
